Tuesday, November 30, 2010

The Happiness Project: Pink Tree and Coolness


I know the picture is all kinds of blurry, but I snapped really quickly this morning with my cellphone. I love this pink tree that is in Shelby’s room with the adorable sugar plum fairies. This makes me happy and helps with my bah hum bug attitude I have had recently. I don’t think that it makes me a cool mom, though.

Last night as I was straightening Shelby’s hair – I know – she was telling me about how I am known as the “mean mom”. You see there was an episode, a series of events over a year ago which lead to Shelby going to school crying. Her mother was justified and she was completely out of line. Well, last night I found out that since that day no other kids want me as their mother. This fact is upsetting to Shelby. She said “I want them to think you are a cool mom.” I quickly said “I would rather be a mom who raised a cool kid, who did things she was supposed to do then a cool mom. I am not going to sweat it if some other child does not want to come home with me because all I need is you.” She was so worried about my cool mom status – it was sweet, but at the same time the only person I need to be “cool” to is her and even then I would rather go about it the right way then to let her do things she is not allowed to do. 

Need more happiness? Go see Leigh!
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6 comments:

  1. I think you are a cool mom for doing what was right. Love the pink tree too.

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  2. Amen! SOMEday Shelby will thank you for it!

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  3. Cool moms do what they need to do to raise cool kids.

    =)

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  4. If kids think that you are uncool it's because you're doing all the right stuff!

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  5. I agree with David...You are a great mom!

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  6. Love this - I bet my daughter would just LOVE to have a pink tree!

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